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"I didn't give you the gift of life, but life gave me the gift of you."

LATEST MOM HACKS:

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May 7, 2022

Creative Ways To Keep Your Kids Moving This Summer

It can be challenging to keep your kids moving during the summer months, but here are a few ideas...

by Sally Richards
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May 5, 2022

How To Make Your Bedroom A Haven

A bedroom can be a safe space, there is definitely intention needed to make your bedroom a haven.

by Cali Anderson
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May 4, 2022

Here’s Why Your Drain Is Clogging (& What To Do)

You don't have to be a plumbing expert to have clear pipes! Here are some reasons why your drain...

by Cali Anderson
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April 29, 2022

3 Ways To Save Money On Kid Toys

Buying new things is wonderful. . . but costly! Here are a few suggestions for how you can save...

by Sally Richards

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5 Activities For You And Your Child To Enjoy Together

by Marisa Donnelly

Whether you have toddlers, preschoolers, or school-aged children, here are five activities for you and your child to do together.

March 19, 2022
From The Heart
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4 Little Ways To Stay Healthy As A Stay-At-Home Mom

by Katy Kipper

When you're a stay-at-home mom, it can be challenging to keep healthy habits, as so much of your life is dictated by your little ones.

March 6, 2022
From The Heart
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How Do You Raise A Happy Child?

by Marisa Donnelly

Raising a happy child can feel overwhelming at first, but it doesn't have to be. Here are some tips for being an intentional, present parent.

November 19, 2021
From The Heart
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I don't like the term 'stepchild' — he's my son, I don't like the term 'stepchild' — he's my son, I just didn't give birth to him. ❤️⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ #momishmoments #bonusmom #mom #stepmom #stepmomshow #stepmomsofinstagram #stepmomtruth #stepkids #stepbystepparents #stepchildren #bonusson #boymom
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Sharing a special photo from a special lady today. Sharing a special photo from a special lady today. 🌈⁣ ⁣ This is a woman I admire, a woman whose story brings me strength, and light, and hope. Kenzie went through such challenging circumstances, but she never lost her fight. She knew that, despite the obstacles, God had a plan for her and her husband, and for their future children. ⁣ ⁣ And after so many trials, closed doors, and broken dreams, their prayers were finally answered. Her and her husband now have two beautiful babies.⁣ ⁣ Kenzie's story is a reminder that life doesn't always move on our timelines or in the way we expect. Sometimes it's hard. Sometimes it's lonely. And sometimes pain is what leads to something beautiful if we just trust and hold on. ⁣ ⁣ Honored to share this picture of you, @kenz_lewin24 ❤️⁣ Thank you for sharing your journey.⁣ ⁣ #momishmoments
Sometimes I feel like it doesn't get easier. Every Sometimes I feel like it doesn't get easier. Every year seems like a fight, like a burden I have to bear just to get what my son needs, what he's entitled to. Sometimes I just want to rest, to trust that the systems in place have his best interests in mind. Sometimes I just want to put down my armor.⁣ ⁣ But I keep going, like all parents do.⁣ We keep going, keep pushing, keep fighting. ⁣ ⁣ Because despite the fact that it isn't easy, we know we're making changes (even if they're small). And we know it will get easier some day, even if that's not yet today. #dontgiveup
You can be soft without compromising your integrit You can be soft without compromising your integrity.⁣ You can be soft without getting walked on or walked over.⁣ You can be soft and still discipline seriously and productively.⁣ You can be soft and still grow a strong, independent child.⁣ You can be soft and still be a good mom.⁣ ⁣ Softness is not weakness.⁣ ⁣ #momishmoments
Last year was the hardest season of my life. ⁣ ⁣ There was a global health crisis. I was incredibly isolated from friends and loved ones. I made a majorly stressful business and life pivot to support my son's learning by creating a homeschool in my two-bedroom house. I taught, parented, worked, lived, cooked, ate, and caretook all under one roof, and more specifically, my tiny kitchen. I was quarantined from high-risk family members and unable to rely on anyone else for support. I lost the strength to ask for help, and stopped asking altogether. My stress manifested itself in rashes, itchiness, bloating, and reactions to all different types of foods. I stopped taking care of and loving on myself, and this looked like skin problems, unwashed hair pulled into messy buns, and bitten-down cuticles. I was overworked, overstressed, and burnt out. ⁣ ⁣ And above all, I felt so incredibly alone.⁣ ⁣ ____⁣ And I share this — not for pity — but for a reminder that each and every one of us has a story, has a challenging season, has a 'rock bottom,' has struggles and moments where we lose ourselves. We have to remember that. And we have to remember that despite these difficult times, we can and will overcome.⁣ ⁣ Although the past year and a half brought so much joy, connection with my son, incredible educational opportunities, peace and stability, a freakin' homeschool in my house (!), and so many other beautiful moments. . . it was also really hard.⁣ ⁣ And I'm finally owning that narrative, too. I'm finally being honest about why I stopped doing things I loved, why I wasn't as active on social media, and why it's taken me so long to find myself and my voice again.⁣ ⁣ If this resonates in any way with you, I hope you know you're not alone. I see you. I feel your pain. I validate your experience. I support you, even in your struggle.⁣ ⁣ It may not look pretty right now or in the midst of the mess, but you WILL come out on the other side. You WILL be okay. I promise. ❤️⁣ ⁣ #momishmoments⁣ #honestmotherhood⁣ #mamaconfessions
If you're a bonus/stepparent, then at some point y If you're a bonus/stepparent, then at some point you'll need to engage in conversation with your partner's ex (for custody/care, pickups/drop-offs, school information, illness, holidays and special dates, notes from the child,, etc.). ⁣ ⁣ In some situations, it's healthy and smart to leave communication between your partner and his/her ex. . . but in some situations that doesn't make sense or isn't possible. And that's why attempting to create positive communication, mutual respect and trust, and patience is so important.⁣ ⁣ Here are some suggestions for talking with your partner's ex. ⁣ ⁣ #coparenting⁣ #momishmoments
I write my son notes in his lunchbox. He's thirtee I write my son notes in his lunchbox. He's thirteen, and it's probably not that *cool,* but I do it anyways. I do it because it's something my own mother did for me, and I recognize now how meaningful it was even if I never told her back then. I do it because I love the idea of my son being reminded that I care about him in the middle of his school day. I do it because if I can make him smile, or laugh, or shrug it off to look tough in front of his buddies, I'm doing my job as a mama. I do it because I feel like life's too short to not tell our loved ones that we care. 💛 #momishmoments
I may have chosen my motherhood by saying 'yes' to I may have chosen my motherhood by saying 'yes' to a man and his son. But as much as I chose my story and my family, my motherhood chose me. 💗⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣
Motherhood is beautiful, yes. ⁣ ⁣ But it's als Motherhood is beautiful, yes. ⁣ ⁣ But it's also messy. It's also bitten-down cuticles from stress and chipped nail polish because I just don't have the time to look pretty. It's paint and sharpie from craft projects and callouses from playing ball at the park. It's the moments I yell at my son and cry after he falls asleep, or the mornings I snap because I'm tired and we ride in silence all the way to school.⁣ ⁣ I love this journey, and I wouldn't trade it for the world, but it's not easy. ⁣ ⁣ And what I've realized in becoming a mom is just how hard and lonely it can feel if you don't take the time to lean in and on others, to ask for help, to acknowledge the tough parts and move through them, and to give yourself some credit for all that you do.⁣ ⁣ From one mama to another,⁣ I'm proud of you. ❤️
It's not about being the 'best,' or the 'better' p It's not about being the 'best,' or the 'better' parent. It's not about being the 'favorite' or trying, so desperately, to be the one your child likes 'most.' It's not about who he/she 'chooses' or 'sides with.' It's about working together and remembering that despite your differences and households, you create a blended family. ⁣ ⁣ And above all else, your child(ren) come first.
#MentalHealth is so important, especially for pare #MentalHealth is so important, especially for parents. ❤️ I wrote about this in one of my latest blog posts, and specifically how parents can improve their mental health and wellbeing, for themselves and their families. ⁣ ⁣ momishmoments.com/blog | #endthestigma
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Health/Wellness, Mom Hacks

3 Simple Tips For Living The Healthiest Lifestyle You Possibly Can

When we say 'living the healthiest lifestyle,' what do we really mean? In short, being 'healthy' depends on the person.

April 27, 2022
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Health/Wellness

4 Little Ways To Encourage Your Kids To Exercise

There are ways to encourage your kids to exercise — by making it fun, involving yourself, and getting their buy-in for the activity or sport.

April 12, 2022
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Health/Wellness

3 Stress-Relieving Exercises For Busy Moms

It's so important for mothers to prioritize self-care, learn ways to put themselves first, and practice stress-relieving exercises.

April 2, 2022
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Health/Wellness

How To Help Your Teenager Deal With Stress

As a parent, it's not only possible for you to help your teenager deal with stress...  it's also your job! Here are some tips to help.

March 25, 2022
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Health/Wellness

Parent Workouts: Maximum Results In Minimum Time

If you're a busy parent, it's hard to find time for exercise! Here are some tips parent workouts that can easily be added to your routine.

March 24, 2022

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