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"I didn't give you the gift of life, but life gave me the gift of you."

LATEST MOM HACKS:

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March 22, 2021

Hey Busy Mama: Are You Aware Of These Home Risks?

In all the craziness of being a mama and managing work, play, and children, something that often gets overlooked...

by Katy Kipper
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March 21, 2021

4 Tips For Making Your Outdoor Space More Kid-Friendly

Here are a few ways to make your outdoor space more kid-friendly (without losing its sophisticated, adult-like charm).

by Cali Anderson
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March 9, 2021

5 Ways To Make Your Minimalist Home Feel Cozier

Whether you're a fan of the less-is-more style or just dabbling for the first time, here are ways to...

by Cali Anderson
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March 6, 2021

Your Home May Have Risks (Here’s What You Can Do)

Depending on your home's construction (and other variables) your home may have risks that could pose real threats to...

by Cali Anderson

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How To Raise Children Who Are Strong Leaders

by Jenna Sherman

If you want to raise children who are strong leaders, the process doesn’t have to be complicated. But it does take some time and hard work.

March 7, 2021
From The Heart
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5 Ways To Strengthen Bonds With Your Children

by Katy Kipper

Knowing how challenging parenting can be, how do you strengthen bonds with your children, especially when you are new to parenting?

September 9, 2020
From The Heart, Mom Hacks
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How To Support Your Grieving Family

by Katy Kipper

One simple way to support your grieving family is to offer practical assistance (if and when you feel you can).

September 9, 2020
From The Heart
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Dear mama (of every story and journey) — I just Dear mama (of every story and journey) — I just want you to know that I see you, I feel your struggle, and I care. I just want you to know that whatever obstacle you're facing, it will eventually get easier. I just want you to know that even if you don't quite have the title of 'mom' or if this day feels heavy for you, you're not alone. ⁣ ⁣ I just want you to know that you are someone of value, and purpose, and worth, regardless of what your 'label' is or what today honors.⁣ ⁣ You are someone worth celebrating.⁣ Mama, I'm proud of you.⁣ #momish ⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ #momishmoments #stepbystepparents #motherhoodquotes #honestmotherhood #thisismotherhood #mylittlefamily #parentstories #bonusmotherhood #bonusmom #boymama #boymom #lifeofabonusmom #mommydiaries #momblog #ourcandidlife #mytinymoments #bonusmommy #stepmomstrong #stepmomsupport #stepmomsclub #coparenting #diaryofabonusmom
Mother's Day weekend is beautiful and special. It' Mother's Day weekend is beautiful and special. It's a time of recognition and celebration, a time to pause and reflect on relationships and how blessed we all are by the mamas in our lives. ⁣ ⁣ But this weekend is also so hard. It's a reminder, for many, of loved ones they've lost. It's a day of pain when you're someone who's struggling to conceive. And it's a time of conflict when you're a mother figure without a title, juggling with jealousy, feelings of inadequacy, or even questioning your worth. ⁣ ⁣ I just want to honor you — whoever you are and whatever your story is.⁣ ⁣ You are a mother, even if your baby is no longer on this earth. You are a mother, even if your children are estranged. You are a mother, even with an angel baby. You are a mother, even if you're only a 'step' or a 'bonus' or someone who goes by her first name instead of 'Mom.' ⁣ ⁣ Happy Mother's day to EVERY mom, in EVERY story.⁣ Thank you, for being you. ❤️⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ #mothersday #happymothersday #momish #momishmoments #stepbystepparents #motherhoodquotes #honestmotherhood #thisismotherhood #mylittlefamily #parentstories #bonusmotherhood #bonusmom #boymama #boymom #lifeofabonusmom #mommydiaries #momblog #ourcandidlife #mytinymoments #bonusmommy #stepmomstrong #stepmomsupport #stepmomsclub #coparenting #diaryofabonusmom #blendedfamilies #momarmy #positiveparenting
If you needed a reminder, #stepmama — you are ma If you needed a reminder, #stepmama — you are making an impact. ❤️⁣ ⁣ #momishmoments
LOL. Anyone else?! 🙃 ⁣ ⁣ This season — gl LOL. Anyone else?! 🙃 ⁣ ⁣ This season — global pandemic, launching a full-time homeschool, running my business from home while juggling full-time childcare, being quarantined from high-risk loved ones — has made me feel exhausted, overwhelmed, frustrated, and incredibly lonely. ⁣ ⁣ Honestly, I"m just like this mouse. 😭😂⁣ ⁣ But I've also learned how to create healthy boundaries, how to say 'no' to what doesn't feel right and 'yes' to what does, how to lean on others and ask for help (even when it's hard), and how to accept love (even if it doesn't come in my love language).⁣ ⁣ I know I'm also not alone in these feelings. ⁣ ⁣ So, anyone who's been struggling this season...⁣ I see you. I feel you. You are pretty freakin' amazing. #momish⁣ ⁣
If #quarantine has taught us one thing, it's how t If #quarantine has taught us one thing, it's how to be creative in the ample time we have together. 😂 Lol. ⁣ ⁣ Seriously, though, one of the things I've appreciated the most about our little family and how we've grown over the past year is that our communication has become the priority. ⁣ ⁣ Mad about something? Share it.⁣ Something on your chest? Take the space.⁣ Struggling? It's okay to cry.⁣ Need support? We'll listen.⁣ ⁣ We're not a perfect family by any means, but navigating full-time work, full-time homeschool, and full-time caregiving of this little dude has reminded me that if we can get through a freaking pandemic, we can get through anything. ⁣
Maybe it'll never get easier.⁣ Maybe it'll alway Maybe it'll never get easier.⁣ Maybe it'll always be a struggle.⁣ ⁣ But that doesn't make it less worth it.⁣ ⁣ #stepbystepparents⁣
One of the coolest things I've experienced in my j One of the coolest things I've experienced in my journey is how becoming a #bonusparent has connected (and reconnected) me with such incredible people. ⁣ ⁣ This man has been a huge part of my life. To see him become both a father and #bonusdad has warmed my heart in so many ways. The universe has a beautiful way of bringing people together. ❤️ Humbled to share in your joys, laughter, and love, C.⁣
If you learn nothing else on your journey, learn t If you learn nothing else on your journey, learn this — you're going to make mistakes, you're going to lose your sh*t, you're going to be imperfect and flawed, and yes, people will see these things sometimes. But that's okay.⁣ ⁣ You'll also have so many moments of joy and healing, you'll also grow, you'll also rebuild and make a difference in the lives you touch. Give yourself grace.⁣ ⁣
Parenting doesn't have to look a certain way to be Parenting doesn't have to look a certain way to be beautiful. ⁣ Parenting doesn't have to look a certain way to be real.⁣ ⁣ I am reminded of this every time I look at my friend @j_daddy3317 and his daughter. From knowing this man in college, to watching his transformation into a dad, I am humbled and proud to be a witness of his journey. ⁣ ⁣ He stepped in, he stepped up, and he is a blessing in this little girl's life. I only hope I to be the same in my family. 💙 #bonusdad⁣ ⁣
I read a post once that said, "The hardest breakup I read a post once that said, "The hardest breakup you'll ever go through is the one you go through with your child as he/she grows up." Dang. That hit right in the feels, especially because I met Austin when he was eight. So I've already lost out on a significant portion of his life.⁣ ⁣ But, the thing about kids is that yes, they may "breakup" with you. They may fight you. They may push you away. But they will never not need love. And whether they seek that love in others, whether they fall into relationships with their peers, or whether they run in the opposite direction of you for YEARS in pursuit of their own definitions of love, one day they'll realize that the greatest love they'll ever have is yours. ❤️⁣
How has this #backtoschool time shifted your life? How has this #backtoschool time shifted your life? ⁣ ⁣ When I realized schools probably wouldn't be back in-person for several months (if not the entire semester or year), I knew I had to do something different with Austin's education. Homeschooling wasn't just an idea, it was a necessary choice.⁣ ⁣ So, here we are. One month down. Six crazy kids. And a zillion memories left to make. Here's what I've learned so far: ⁣ ⁣ → ❤️ You'll never be fully prepared for anything in life. Whether that's a homeschool, a change in your day-to-day, or a freaking pandemic, there is no "ready" or "good time." Sometimes life throws you curve balls, and even though you've already struck out 21938 times, you keep going to bat. ⁣ ⁣ Because what else is the point of this life than to find your footing, pivot, and keep trying to create happiness right where you are?⁣ ⁣ → ❤️ Kids need stability to thrive. In a time where literally EVERYTHING has been unstable for the past seven months, creating a safe space for them to lean into, trust, and call "home" has been a game-changer.⁣ ⁣ → ❤️ We don't need to be perfect to be qualified. As a recovering perfectionist, I can't say this enough. My students will NEVER remember how that one Friday in September I completely messed up the technology and assignments. But they WILL remember that year they were homeschooled by Austin's "stepmom" and how much fun they had.⁣ ⁣ → ❤️ Life calls you to things. And sometimes no matter how crazy, or how silly, or how downright wild it may seem, you lean in. Because life's too precious not to step outside of your comfort zone and see what happens. ⁣
I struggle anytime someone asks me for my bio. It' I struggle anytime someone asks me for my bio. It's hard to take all the things I'm passionate about and articulate them in a few, short sentences. I'm a business owner, yes. I'm a bonus mom, yes. But I'm also an author, writing coach, content creator, and editor. And now, I'm also a full-time homeschool teacher and advocate for students with disabilities. 🙃 ⁣ ⁣ If there's one thing that I've learned in the past three years of fighting for my boyfriend's son's education and rights, it's that just because something "is the way it is" or because it's just "been this way forever" doesn't mean you have to accept it.⁣ ⁣ We have the power to change the institutions around us. ⁣ ⁣ We have the power to change the narratives around how our children are perceived, taught, celebrated, and loved. ⁣ ⁣ Something might not work for my son, but that doesn't mean he is any less capable, smart, or incredible. "Let's find another way." #changeyourapproach⁣
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Health/Wellness

Simple Ways To Teach Your Children Responsibility

Whether you're a seasoned parent or someone just starting in your journey, here are a few simple ways to teach your children responsibility.

February 25, 2021
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Health/Wellness

How To Nurture Positive & Resilient Kids

One of the most challenging (and yet rewarding) aspects of parenting is learning how to nurture positive and resilient kids.

February 22, 2021
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Health/Wellness

3 Simple Ways To Take Care Of Your Kids’ Teeth

Although brushing is a good start, it’s not enough. Here are a few no-brainer tips to help you take care of your kids' teeth.

February 8, 2021
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Health/Wellness

Healthy Eating Tips For Picky Children

Although the road may be challenging, here are some healthy eating tips for picky children (and ways to keep your sanity along the way!)

November 6, 2020
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Health/Wellness

How To Help Your Parents As They Age

You can help your parents as they age by advocating for them. Offer to drive and go to their doctor’s appointments with them.

November 6, 2020

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