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November 5, 2021

How To Prepare Your Child For A Big Move

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How Do You Raise A Happy Child?

by Marisa Donnelly

Raising a happy child can feel overwhelming at first, but it doesn't have to be. Here are some tips for being an intentional, present parent.

November 19, 2021
From The Heart
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How To Raise Children Who Are Strong Leaders

by Jenna Sherman

If you want to raise children who are strong leaders, the process doesn’t have to be complicated. But it does take some time and hard work.

March 7, 2021
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by Katy Kipper

Knowing how challenging parenting can be, how do you strengthen bonds with your children, especially when you are new to parenting?

September 9, 2020
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When I first became a bonus mom, I remember the st When I first became a bonus mom, I remember the striking feeling that I was suddenly a part of a group of people who I (unconsciously) completely connected with. I remember reading posts about being tired and frustrated, striving (and failing) at keeping balance, and feeling isolated and alone. ⁣ ⁣ I remember nodding my head, thinking, "Wow. Other people get it. Other mamas get it. I'm not alone." And it was, and still is, strangely comforting to realize that your heaviness is shared with others, too. ⁣ ⁣ Although the narrative of 'tired mama' and 'overwhelmed mama' is something that I want to push back as I encourage healthy boundaries, self-love/self-care, and balance, I do want to express this sentiment:⁣ ⁣ Motherhood can be exhausting.⁣ And sometimes we need reminders that others feel this, too. ❤️⁣ ⁣
As a planner-driven mama, one of the biggest chall As a planner-driven mama, one of the biggest challenges I've faced this past year is learning to adjust, to shift, and to coordinate life with my family (while prioritizing health and joy rather than solely lists and routines). Stumbled across @hearthdisplay and couldn't be more excited about the possibilities! A space for chores, tasks, routines, and self-care 💓 Here's to hoping this will be the new addition to our home!
I don't know who needs to read this, but it's okay I don't know who needs to read this, but it's okay.⁣ ⁣ It's okay to have moments where you feel like you're failing, where you're in over your head, where your kids aren't as picture-perfect as you want them to be. It's okay to want to quit, to even give up for a little while. It's okay to be sad and feel the realm of emotions, the highs and the lows. It's okay to be soft, and emotional, and scared. It's okay to ask for help. It's okay to not know the answer sometimes. It's okay to be messy. ⁣ ⁣ Even the superheroes take breaks. #momishmoments⁣ ⁣ 🎨: @decade2doodles⁣
Dear mama (of every story and journey) — I just Dear mama (of every story and journey) — I just want you to know that I see you, I feel your struggle, and I care. I just want you to know that whatever obstacle you're facing, it will eventually get easier. I just want you to know that even if you don't quite have the title of 'mom' or if this day feels heavy for you, you're not alone. ⁣ ⁣ I just want you to know that you are someone of value, and purpose, and worth, regardless of what your 'label' is or what today honors.⁣ ⁣ You are someone worth celebrating.⁣ Mama, I'm proud of you.⁣ #momish ⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ #momishmoments #stepbystepparents #motherhoodquotes #honestmotherhood #thisismotherhood #mylittlefamily #parentstories #bonusmotherhood #bonusmom #boymama #boymom #lifeofabonusmom #mommydiaries #momblog #ourcandidlife #mytinymoments #bonusmommy #stepmomstrong #stepmomsupport #stepmomsclub #coparenting #diaryofabonusmom
Mother's Day weekend is beautiful and special. It' Mother's Day weekend is beautiful and special. It's a time of recognition and celebration, a time to pause and reflect on relationships and how blessed we all are by the mamas in our lives. ⁣ ⁣ But this weekend is also so hard. It's a reminder, for many, of loved ones they've lost. It's a day of pain when you're someone who's struggling to conceive. And it's a time of conflict when you're a mother figure without a title, juggling with jealousy, feelings of inadequacy, or even questioning your worth. ⁣ ⁣ I just want to honor you — whoever you are and whatever your story is.⁣ ⁣ You are a mother, even if your baby is no longer on this earth. You are a mother, even if your children are estranged. You are a mother, even with an angel baby. You are a mother, even if you're only a 'step' or a 'bonus' or someone who goes by her first name instead of 'Mom.' ⁣ ⁣ Happy Mother's day to EVERY mom, in EVERY story.⁣ Thank you, for being you. ❤️⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ #mothersday #happymothersday #momish #momishmoments #stepbystepparents #motherhoodquotes #honestmotherhood #thisismotherhood #mylittlefamily #parentstories #bonusmotherhood #bonusmom #boymama #boymom #lifeofabonusmom #mommydiaries #momblog #ourcandidlife #mytinymoments #bonusmommy #stepmomstrong #stepmomsupport #stepmomsclub #coparenting #diaryofabonusmom #blendedfamilies #momarmy #positiveparenting
If you needed a reminder, #stepmama — you are ma If you needed a reminder, #stepmama — you are making an impact. ❤️⁣ ⁣ #momishmoments
LOL. Anyone else?! 🙃 ⁣ ⁣ This season — gl LOL. Anyone else?! 🙃 ⁣ ⁣ This season — global pandemic, launching a full-time homeschool, running my business from home while juggling full-time childcare, being quarantined from high-risk loved ones — has made me feel exhausted, overwhelmed, frustrated, and incredibly lonely. ⁣ ⁣ Honestly, I"m just like this mouse. 😭😂⁣ ⁣ But I've also learned how to create healthy boundaries, how to say 'no' to what doesn't feel right and 'yes' to what does, how to lean on others and ask for help (even when it's hard), and how to accept love (even if it doesn't come in my love language).⁣ ⁣ I know I'm also not alone in these feelings. ⁣ ⁣ So, anyone who's been struggling this season...⁣ I see you. I feel you. You are pretty freakin' amazing. #momish⁣ ⁣
If #quarantine has taught us one thing, it's how t If #quarantine has taught us one thing, it's how to be creative in the ample time we have together. 😂 Lol. ⁣ ⁣ Seriously, though, one of the things I've appreciated the most about our little family and how we've grown over the past year is that our communication has become the priority. ⁣ ⁣ Mad about something? Share it.⁣ Something on your chest? Take the space.⁣ Struggling? It's okay to cry.⁣ Need support? We'll listen.⁣ ⁣ We're not a perfect family by any means, but navigating full-time work, full-time homeschool, and full-time caregiving of this little dude has reminded me that if we can get through a freaking pandemic, we can get through anything. ⁣
Maybe it'll never get easier.⁣ Maybe it'll alway Maybe it'll never get easier.⁣ Maybe it'll always be a struggle.⁣ ⁣ But that doesn't make it less worth it.⁣ ⁣ #stepbystepparents⁣
One of the coolest things I've experienced in my j One of the coolest things I've experienced in my journey is how becoming a #bonusparent has connected (and reconnected) me with such incredible people. ⁣ ⁣ This man has been a huge part of my life. To see him become both a father and #bonusdad has warmed my heart in so many ways. The universe has a beautiful way of bringing people together. ❤️ Humbled to share in your joys, laughter, and love, C.⁣
If you learn nothing else on your journey, learn t If you learn nothing else on your journey, learn this — you're going to make mistakes, you're going to lose your sh*t, you're going to be imperfect and flawed, and yes, people will see these things sometimes. But that's okay.⁣ ⁣ You'll also have so many moments of joy and healing, you'll also grow, you'll also rebuild and make a difference in the lives you touch. Give yourself grace.⁣ ⁣
Parenting doesn't have to look a certain way to be Parenting doesn't have to look a certain way to be beautiful. ⁣ Parenting doesn't have to look a certain way to be real.⁣ ⁣ I am reminded of this every time I look at my friend @j_daddy3317 and his daughter. From knowing this man in college, to watching his transformation into a dad, I am humbled and proud to be a witness of his journey. ⁣ ⁣ He stepped in, he stepped up, and he is a blessing in this little girl's life. I only hope I to be the same in my family. 💙 #bonusdad⁣ ⁣
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Health/Wellness

5 Easy Ways To Improve Kids’ Eye Health

In order to improve eye health, parent(s) need to step in and teach their children how to properly take care of their eyes.

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Health/Wellness

3 Simple Ways to Help Improve your Dental Health

Here are 3 simple ways to change your habits and improve your dental health.

November 15, 2021
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Travel

This Father-Founded Company Makes Flying With Family Possible

Families couldn't just book flights, pack bags, and go... that is, until PlaneAhead came around and made flying with family possible.

November 4, 2021
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Health/Wellness

How To Help Kids With Nightmares

Bad dreams impact many of us, but when we're older, it's much easier to recognize reality than it is when we're young.

November 3, 2021
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Health/Wellness

4 Little Ways To Take Better Care Of Your Feet

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